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feel comfortable with a new person? - Nebulous - Feb 12th, 2023
How long does it take you to feel comfortable with a new person?
RE: feel comfortable with a new person? - Maniakkid25 - Feb 12th, 2023
Uh, very. At least several months. When I meet a new person, I have to figure out anew what my limits are, and that means usually that I have to wait, see what happens, before I can let my guard down and know that it'll be okay. Whenever I let my guard down is when bad stuff happens, so I don't get the luxury of doing that whenever I'm out in public.
RE: feel comfortable with a new person? - Moonface - Feb 12th, 2023
Depends on what defines as comfortable. When it comes to just talking to people that tends to be very quick for me, and what takes time is just how much personal stuff I'm willing to share, although even if I don't ever reach a point of wanting to share every little secret and detail about myself I wouldn't say I'm uncomfortable with a person.
RE: feel comfortable with a new person? - ShiraNoMai - Feb 14th, 2023
Me, unironically.
RE: feel comfortable with a new person? - Mr EliteL - Feb 15th, 2023
Depends but likely takes very long, I don't really try anything at first, so it's usually the other party who does most of the interacting. If in a group I'll trust an individual based on what they do and because there's others around. 1-on-1 however I'll just be incredibly awkward. I don't know really. Let's just say there's very few people I'm actually comfortable with.
RE: feel comfortable with a new person? - Nebulous - Feb 27th, 2023
All depends on their vibe.